After a while you learn
the subtle difference
between holding a hand and chaining a soul
and you learn that love doesn't always mean security
and you begin to learn that kisses aren't contracts
and presents aren't promises
and you begin accept your defeats
with your head up and eyes ahead
with the grace of a woman, not the grief of a child
and you learn to build all your roads on today
because tomorrow's ground is too uncertain for plans
and futures have a way falling down in mid-flight.
After a while you learn
that even sunshine burns if you get too much
so you plant your own garden and decorate your own soul
instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers
and you learn that you really can endure
you really are strong
you really do have worth
and you learn
and you learn
with every goodbye you learn...
Veronica Shoffstall