I have noticed (during these 8 months, from which I have spent every single saturday and sunday and most of the fridays too if i just got home on time) by my pool, that there are a handful of dudes every single time that have to take the time to come to me where I always lay down, and say something really stupid, the most used frase being - wau what a tan, do u come here often? No. I was just born this way.
Today I just had enough because I dont only get really annoyed by it (like it gets the dude anywhere anyway) but because its so rude. A woman is sweaty, looking like Shit and in her bikinis - the last thing you want is to be bothered.
So when the tenth duded of the day came to me, I told him that "Tell me something new that I dont hear ten times a day or piss off. And he took off. I just had enough and those dudes think that you would start a nice chat with them. Little they know me.
Eric was one of those to, hah. He started the conversation "You propably get this all the time but could you give me your phone number" where I said, yeah I get it ten times a day, not interested. He said afterwards that im so cold and rude and I told him that well GEE I wonder why, bacause all the assholes try to hit on me by the pool.
OK, that was the lesson of today. Never, hit a woman when she is at her most vulnerable by the pool.